After spending most of my early years wondering whether I was “on the right track” toward my future, in my early 30s I finally discovered that what I really needed was
discernment. By then I had become an ordained minister in the Lutheran church (
ELCA) in 2002. However, the discernment skills and practices I most needed came from serving as Campus Minister for Vocation Discernment at a Jesuit Catholic university (
Santa Clara).
My job was supporting students of any religious background (or none) in exploring big questions about meaning and purpose. Through coaching, retreats, and groups, we provided a space for students to consider choices for their future according to their deepest values and convictions. In the process I developed a richer understanding of both
vocation (broadly understood as
calling) and
discernment, and combined them with the sense of divine and necessary
grace that I carry from my life-long Lutheran tradition.
After spending years seeking the companion-book I really wanted my students to have, I wrote
The Treasure Hunt of Your Life as a resource for discerning one’s own choices about life and work. In the book as well as my discernment coaching work, I believe strongly that
- Life is too complex for one perspective or one religious tradition's approach to big questions and life choices,
- Discernment is a life-long project and not at all limited to young adulthood, and
- Theology is only one way to talk about being a positive force in the world; I also rely on ways I learned from business administration and nonprofit leadership (I received my MBA in 2012).
I have pastored Lutheran congregations in Silicon Valley; Hong Kong; Reno, Nevada; and Bangor, Maine, where I currently live with my husband and two children. I recently served as director of the
Wilson Center for Spiritual Exploration and Multifaith Dialogue at the University of Maine. Now I teach in UMaine's
Honors College as a preceptor in the "Civilizations: Past, Present, and Future" course.
This website is not intended to speak for my denomination or any other communities I belong to.